Nice touch...but expensive! I hope they have a lot of money because those lawyer fees are going to cost her. That is, if she does indeed decide to leave him. I know that the initial thought is that the marriage is over (it was for me) so you just don't care what you spend your money on or how many people you tell about your cheating husband. However, if you do decide to work it out with him...that's when some of these actions come back to haunt you.