Monday, June 27, 2011

5 Stages of Grief in Infidelity Recovery

This is a really good article and so true - check it out:
5 Stages of Grief You'll Experience


  1. Great article! I got stuck in denial. I accepted that the affair had happened and moved forward, and then the reality would slap me and would fall apart. I finally realized that I just didn't believe it. I didn't bargain, and skipped anger, and thought I has in acceptance - and then, after 1 1/2 years, anger hit....


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  2. Interesting! I think a lot of us try to get through the stages as quickly as possible so that we can "get over it" but it just doesn't work that way. Our minds know that we have to go through a process to heal and if we don't allow it to go through that will just make us go through it eventually. Thanks for visiting and commenting!

  3. I find myself still stuck in the anger stage. Thought I'd already been there and done that a year ago. Nope, it's back!

  4. Oh no...really? Ugh...My anger seeped through tonight again. Apparently, this is going to be a longer process than anticipated.

  5. It is coming up on 2 years. Anger has been raging in me for the past 2 years, but towards our once wedding anniversary, which was 4 days after he messed around on me, all I feel is anger, red hot, fresh anger.

  6. It has been a little over 6 months since d-day. I am learning to go through the process a day at a time. Some days I feel like Sybil. Happy one moment and depressed and feeling crazy the next. When I go through the anger/depression its usually over the top and usually out of no where. It is so tiring some times that I am just not sure what to do. C is doing his best to try to tough it out since he is the cause of my frustration and pain. Sometimes I still wonder why I overlooked so many signs. I think I just trusted him too he was above doing anything like that and for so long. When I finally recognized that he is not perfect (god) it was too late. We are here.

  7. It really hurt to be cheated on but we have to get over it because if a man really love you nothing can keep him away from you. I caught my ex by spying on his phone I got it at this site

  8. My husband and i got Married last year and we have been living happily for a while. We used to be free with everything and never kept any secret from each other until recently everything changed when he got a new Job in NewYork 2 months ago.He has been avoiding my calls and told me he is working,i got suspicious when i saw a comment of a woman on his Facebook Picture and the way he replied her. I asked my husband about it and he told me that she is co-worker in his organization,We had a big argument and he has not been picking my calls,this went on for long until one day i decided to notify my friend about this and that was how she introduced me to Mr James( a Private Investigator  who helped her when she was having issues with her Husband. I never believed he could do it but until i gave him my husbands Mobile phone number. He proved to me by hacking into my husbands phone. where i found so many evidence and  proof in his Text messages, Emails and pictures that my husband has an affairs with another woman.i have sent all the evidence to our lawyer.I just want to thank Mr James for helping me because i have all the evidence and proof to my lawyer,I Feel so sad about infidelity.

  9. If you know you not ready for a relationship why get into one and still cheat and liar. I was dying inside for my cheating wife, i had no prove, no one to run to. Everyone thought i was paranoid. until i was referred to a Private Investigator  Mr James . I told him about my situation and He understood me well and helped me spy on my wifes iphone.He hacked her Gmail and Facebook account and linked all her WhatsApp and phone conversation to me, to find out the truth.I saw all the evidence and i was heart Broken,I just want to openly say thank you Mr James for helping me get evidence against her,i feel so hurt. If you need help please contact him ( via email. 


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